Dating safely
Most people you meet are exactly who they say. These habits protect you from the few who aren’t.
Never send money to someone you haven't met
Scammers build trust, then ask for help with a bill, a ticket or an investment. Don't send money or gifts to anyone you haven't met in person. If you've already paid, call your bank straight away.
Source: Federal Trade Commission: What to know about romance scams
Meet in public and tell someone
Make your first meeting somewhere public. Tell a friend or family member where you're going and who you're meeting. Keep your home address and bank details to yourself until you know someone well.
Source: Age UK: How to spot a catfish
Reporting a scam in the UK
In England, Wales and Northern Ireland, report fraud to Report Fraud at reportfraud.police.uk or on 0300 123 2040. Report Fraud replaced Action Fraud in December 2025. In Scotland, call Police Scotland on 101. If you feel in danger, call 999.
Reporting a scam in the US
Report romance scams to the FTC at reportfraud.ftc.gov and to the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center at ic3.gov. If someone is in immediate danger, call 911. You can also block and report the profile here, and a person will review it.